Marriage is hard.
Am I telling the truth?
I dont care if you are soul mates, been going steady since the 5th grade or met on eHarmony, its hard work. And even when things are good and you’re madly in love, the daily stresses of life and outside forces make it hard on any couple to stay in love. Or maybe its just me. But probably not.
That’s why Husband and I try to be very intentional with set aside time for just us. We have our weekly breakfast or lunch date on Mondays (day off) and we try to do something special each year on our anniversary.
This year, we decided to stay close to home to celebrate our 19th, but we still wanted to get away…as in, leave kiddos (aka: man-children who are probably technically old enough to be left alone…but are you kidding me?? 3 boys left unattended for 2 days??) with grandma.
There are plenty of nice resorts to choose from in Tucson, but just about the time we started planning our escape, I saw a LivingSocial discount for a deluxe room, bottle of champaign, and half off up to two spa treatments at Loew’s Ventana Canyon. We have stayed here before, but it had been about 10 years since we visited.
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Loew’s Ventana does an amazing job preserving the natural beauty of the Sabino Canyon surroundings while totally indulging your senses. There are pathways leading to waterfalls and quiet little nooks. There’s plenty of outdoor surroundings to keep you occupied.
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And if you want to stay put and hull up, you’ll be pretty comfy doing so. Our bathtub was the size of a small swimming pool and the setting was warm and relaxing. Our balcony faced the city and was breathtaking.
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I took advantage of the fitness room and spa. I had a 50 minute aromatherapy massage that I would like to repeat every day of the week, yes please and thank you. It was divine. The spa was beautiful and fully stocked with everything I needed before and after my visit. The staff was courteous and friendly.
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Our visit, in a word, was indulgent. It hit all the right spots. It was so nice to just relax and eat too much and spend some quality time catching up. We will recommend Loew’s Ventana to our friends and will be back some day ourselves.
Your turn…what do you do to “fireproof” your marriage (if you are married…)










